The national elite matchmaking service, founded in 2001, identifies beautiful, deserving women in their 20s, 30s and 40s who are brave enough to share two photographs of themselves with Christine Stelmack.
Those who have "the look" Christine is searching for are invited to fill out a detailed profile.
Those who fit the profile pay Christine $250 to become members.
Katie Heiner, a realtor from Salt Lake City, did just that. And, as a result, she met the man of her dreams.
If you're a multi-millionaire man between the age of 25-55, who is still looking for love, Christine wants to interview you. Jerry Saxton, a real estate mogul for Texas, will attest that calling 206.285.0303 was one of the best investments of time and money he's ever made.
Last weekend, at an upscale resort, Jerry and Katie were married.
Katie, who grew up in Minnesota, moved to Salt Lake City, three years ago. Now, she is moving her Prudential real estate business to Dallas.
Christine, who was invited to the wedding, said:
The wedding was spectacular.
They're a perfect match, and I know they'll enjoy a lifetime of happiness together.
When asked how she felt about being included in the couple's vows, Stelmack enthusiastically replied, "Well, it was kind of a shock. I actually got goose bumps when Katie told me ... I mean nobody has ever included me in their wedding vows before, so it's really quite an honor!"
Christine Stelmack founded the 4M Club after previously owning a corporate temporary personnel service in downtown Chicago.
When she relocated to Seattle, she immediately started recruiting beautiful, deserving career women from around the country for her small, boutique club.
There are no geographical boundaries to becoming a member of The 4M Club. However, most of the women are either from the west coast or Pacific Northwest. Christine also recruits from the South and the East Coast.
To-date, Christine has built a database of 250-300 women who fit her profile.
Only five men are invited each month to join the club.
Single millionaires need only apply. Those who are accepted pay Christine thousands of dollars to join her unique service.
Stelmack charges men between $10,000 to $250,000.
Actually, Stelmack says she will accept non-millionaires. However, guys have to making at least six figures.
Non-millionaires have to pay the same fees as millionaires, though. Currently, Stelmack says, all her men are real millionaires.
Reassuringly, Stemack says she sreens out players and gold diggers: only the serious need apply.
Is it all about the money?
"No," says Stelmack.
Stelmack states:
Who or how are these men supposed to meet women anyway?
No matter who they marry or hook up with, there will always be naysayers who think a woman only wants these guys because they're rich.
I find that insulting and feel sorry for the millionaire.
I mean they have a ton of great qualities besides money ... they're lovable, too, like any guy!
Stelmack says women who inquire about the service, are actually more concerned about men who may only want to date them as trophy girlfriends or wives.
And what about 4M's newest newlyweds, Katie and Jerry?
4M Club owner, Chris Stelmack, wants everyone to know she simply matched up two hearts, and they're a partnership made in heaven.
She is thrilled to have helped the Heiner Saxton's matchmaking adventure and dreams come true.
Stelmack said:
The love between these two is almost scary.
They're in it for the long haul, and I couldn't be happier for them.
From Personalized Service to the World Wide Web of Service
Chris Stelmack's 4M Club offers up to three years of personalized service.
Another way to go is via the Internet.
An online dating service Rugged Elegance recommends is eHarmony.
eHarmony.com is a Christian Singles Matchmaking Dating site.
The values-oriented, relationship building dating service was founded by Christian psychologist and the author of many "finding the love of your life" books, Dr. Neil Clark Warren.
eHarmony uses a patented Compatibility Matching System, which narrows the field from millions of candidates to a highly select group of singles with whom members share deep levels of compatibility.
Where other sites match purely on a picture and a paragraph, eHarmony matches members based on compatibility in the most important areas of life - like values, character, intellect, sense of humor, spiritual beliefs, passion, and up to 24 other dimensions.
eHarmony Match, Danea Heahlke & Larry Allen
Danea Heahlke, an eHarmony believer, said:
I recommend eHarmony to every single person I know.
I can't believe how fast and efficient you were able to match me to Larry, the love of my life and my new husband! It was the easiest and most complete dating service I've ever used and boy did it pay off!
Allen said, "I was alone for 9 years and eHarmony helped my find the perfect woman to love me unconditionally; and it was so easy, she was right there all along!"
Another resource worth considering is a 154 page book recently published by iUniverse, Inc.
Written by Zannah Hackett, the book is called The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking: How to find the love of your life...the one that rocks your world and makes your heart sing.
Fabulous! Forget diamonds- THIS is a Girl's Best Friend!
One reader stated:
The information in this book has been invaluable to me.
It not only helped me realize that I was in the absolute wrong relationship, but it has given me the tools to recognize the right one!
I wish I'd had this years ago. It has made Christmas this year a piece of cake because I've bought it for all my girlfriends!
Judy Thompson, president of Judy Thompson & Associates, a financial executive search firm, said:
Zannah helped me to recognize the man of my dreams using her ancient widsom knowledge. I am very happily married now and have an understanding that truly supports our relationship. I also use it to evaluate and hire candidates in my business.
From people resources like The 4M Club to online resources such as eHarmony to books like The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking, there is hope for those looking for love.
Inspire & Be Inspired.
Here's to healthy, adventuresome, soulful, "finding love in the (million)air(e)" living!
~ Jennifer Carolyn King, Rugged Elegance, LLC